ARealWorld66
The world goes through many events and crises every day. Here, I try to understand the reality of the world through my observations.
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Tuesday, November 07, 2023
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Man is a seeker of peace
In Search of Peace |
We start our journey of life, since we were born and take our place on the earth without knowing the reason and path to follow in this world. As we grow with the time coming out of ignorance we start to learn from our surroundings the fundamentals of life speaking, talking, walking, playing socializing etc. depending on our situations and family. But with the time as we step into the next level of life we come to understand many factors of life and our fight for getting stood up ahead everywhere makes us a racer of life.
As we become a part of the rat race of the world. We juggle up into two worlds one is the outside physical world and the other one is inside our own mental world. The needs of the physical world teach us to run like a winner to get everything that we aspire, showing us dreams of castles but what about the inner world that always makes us think about soothing our emotional world that we cherish inside us in our hearts in the forms of desires.
Being a part of the material world we use to store assets with us what we require or what we aspire. Physical achievements surely makes us proud of ourselves to become a gainer of things that we think to compete with others in our mind. But some around us still feel that empty ness and restlessness in our hearts and try to find out the reason behind that or not being able to recognize our true self who we are, what we are, what we actually need, what we are pursuing and for what we are losing our sleep.
The lessons of life till the mid age like heart breaks, deceits, broken relationships or bitterness in people, struggling for their own space, worries of survival or future security. make us down to think over the questions of our presence in this world. And I am sure to say that everybody in this world in their senses surely burns up with the thoughts of questioning themselves about their arrival in this world at least once in their lifetime.
This is the conflict of our life between the material world and spiritual world. Our life goes two ways because we have a rational mind and we come to realize the value of the things after using them and analysing their true means on the basis of profit and loss. The one side our life is equipped with the amenities and luxuries of the outer attractions what we want to gain in order to prove ourselves successful in eyes of others, and other side we become frustrated and tired with the tedious and manipulative tasks of always winning situations. Because we never like to be defeated by others. The question of self respect and ego hurts us . But even after fighting through the whole life we come to the same point where we began and reckoned our achievements. The finding tells us only by passing through the sequence of events of life step by step to complete the life cycle.
History says that many victorious people have gone mad after their success and many become mad due to failures. The man becomes both ways crazy.. After all what we want in life we never acknowledge in the fast race of life. The answer lies in our daily fulfillment. After getting all the tasks done we all go to sleep to take a sigh of relief to take leave from the all day hustle bustle. Because we seek peace and comfort. Whatever we do for our life we wind up at the end of the day. And come to peace by seeking the stay away from everything.
This is the final answer of all our queries to the life that we all are actually seekers of peace. No matter what kind of life stories we come across. But we all want peace in our mind, body and soul. The peace which can rejuvenate us, please us and teach us the lessons of life to be cool, calm and never give up in any situation. And stay strong to come out of all the hurdles in our path and solve the puzzles of mind.This is the essence of the human journey for life. Here we get a chance to churn and learn best out of life to be satisfying our nerves and being content to all the givings of life.
Monday, November 08, 2021
Home, Heart and Mind
Friday, August 27, 2021
India’s reason to Joy: Festivals and Carnivals
Saturday, August 21, 2021
Morals, Principles, Ethics, and Values
Protest of Afghanis against Taliban |
The world is big enough to live for many species. But still, there is a fight for me and mine. Every other day we hear the story of exploitation and persecution. The other species are well-organized, but the question is the human race, which strives for peace and its rights. History has uncountable stories of wars and battles in the name of religion, community, and borders. And it will be a never-ending pursuit of the human race in the future.
In the past just a couple of weeks back we all heard about the Israel and Palestine war 2021, where thousands of people have lost their lives, including women and children. And after a significant effort of other’s intervention, the war had been stopped. And now again, just in a couple of months, we are again in a crisis of Afghanistan captured by the Taliban, where the pictures of cruelty and violence make everybody intimidated.
Humanity always asks for life with dignity, self-respect, and freedom. But imposing our will on others never makes sense to be human. Everybody has their own self-belief, thoughts, and way of following rules. The pain of people who are rescued from the Taliban can be heard by us. How people cried for their life and their loved ones. The drama of abuse, exploitation, persecution, torment going on the roads. And humanity has been shamed in front of a few people who have no sense of their own identity. They are just being born and brought up by a sense of hatred and domination.
We, humans, live our lives on the basis of our knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge and wisdom come from education. And education inculcates the virtues of morals, principles, ethics, and values in our system. And when we are bound by these virtues, we never commit wrong, no matter whatever the situation is like. The lesson on morals, principles, ethics, and values teaches everybody that we all are equally important in the world. The discrimination on the basis of caste, custom, culture, religion, community germinates the seed of poison in our minds.
Even in the battleground morals, principles, ethics, and values decide your worth of power. The war won by the wrong practices never gives you pride in victory. The power of weapons cannot win human hearts. And cannot keep their reign for a long time. One or the other day, the power of revolution surely will uproot these unauthorized possessions. The power is just about time, and the shift of time definitely changes the course of the story.
The people who believe in their self-worth and fight for the right definitely win justice. Raising your voice against the wrong is necessary to ward off the evils from our land and live a life of dignity and self-respect. Life is about our own choices for we aspire to be, not to lose for others, who are going to determine our path of life. The slaves being created by the power of violence and torment curse to hell.
Life is precious for everyone and all need to follow the rules of morals, principles, ethics, and values, which can bring peace to everyone. People with good morals, principles, ethics, and values never lose their respect and importance in the eyes of others. However, people with wrong practices one day lose their lives in the hands of evils. And they do pay the price for their wrongdoings.
At present, the condition in Afghanistan is so critical, and people need to be strong and patient to regain their power and stand against evils. This is the testing time for these people who need to be united and stand against these perpetrators who show their sovereignty on the basis of terror and barbarity. We have heard since childhood that truth and justice always win in the end. And one should never follow the wrong path. Because it can give you short-term benefits, but in the end, it will lead you to a hell of a disaster.
The people of Afghanistan should keep the hope and courage to reclaim their country with freedom. If they keep fighting one day, surely they will throw these predators out of their boundaries. Right now the condition of children and women are critical in the country, and first, they need to save their lives. It is really worrisome to see little kids and girls in the hands of these encroachers.
Therefore, we should pray for saving the lives of innocent people who fall into this peril without any fault. And the message goes to people of the world that never betray your motherland, be always faithful and patriotic with your country by keeping the virtues of morals, principles, ethics, and values. For living the life with self-respect, dignity, and with your own identity.
Thursday, August 19, 2021
Life in a Shadow of Fear
Friday, August 06, 2021
Peace vs Power & Authority
Need of Peace |
The history of the world is full of stories of power and authority. But this is also true, the world has never remained in peace despite the control and domination across the globe. The entire world is divided into borders and boundaries showing the strength of structure, assets, and possessions. But finding real peace is a difficult agenda. The notion of "me & my" exists everywhere. The human race has remained fighting for its rights and authority.
It is hard to keep oneself alive in this world without the strength of fighting with enemies. The fear of encroachment of others in your life makes everyone aware of their own power. But the question raised whether the use of power and authority keeps people happy and gives inner peace, which they seek to be self-contented in their life. When one has power and authority, then the greed for more & more awakens. And in keeping with it, one has to be more bold and courageous and be active to dominate others and make them subordinate. No doubt, the person will have more outrageous steps to establish their kingdom.
This is a matter to think about in order to get extra, what else has to be lost to be. The answer is peace. The people actually need power and authority when they try to hold and capture other’s assets or want to control structures on their own terms and conditions. The lesson of power and authority teaches the person to be bold, brave, stronger, and dominating and makes them come out of their comfort zone to face adversities. However, when a person has nothing to lose, it has nothing to do with power and authority. He will remain in peace and stability without worrying about assets, and he will never lose his mind and soul over trivial things.
It is mandatory to pay the price of everything on this earth, one has to lose one thing in order to get another thing. The sense of showing power and authority inculcates the psychological traits of keeping them above the others, where the real thread of trust and friendship breaks with others. And the traits of general compassion and kindness diminished, making the person ruthless and cruel towards others that definitely steal the person’s inner peace.
The various tales of kings and kingdoms of the world from history give testimonies of powerful people having to lose their lives, peace, and comfort in pursuit of having more possessions. This is applied in every area of life. Performing tasks with mutual adaptation give peace with safety and security by wards of the fear of being dominated by others and keep everyone calmer by enhancing their inner strength.
The war between peace vs power and authority always wins, with peace in the end. At the whim of power and authority, when we lose so much of our life, we learn to get the lesson of “live and let live.” The moral is, power and authority should be used in your own defense and security, not for controlling others that can be challenging for you as well as others. Greed and gluttony surely bring people to the stage of self-pity, where they only remain with the repentance to think over again.
When the countries try to show their power to each other, the world will come to the verge of war, destruction, and violence, leaving no space for peace. Life is short, and we all want to enjoy it on our own terms, and our freedom is the main pursuit of anything else. So the notion of controlling and dominating others will surely harm everyone with their own human right to live on this earth. So the giving place for everyone is the criteria to live a happy, content, and peaceful life.
Tuesday, August 03, 2021
The Marriage: Need or Obligation
The word marriage is the most exhilarating word of human life that brings a delighting smile to everyone’s face. Because it’s a turning point of our life that can change the course of life. It makes us complete with our other half. And gives us a feeling of completion and stability. With the passing age, we all aspire to our life partners with some special qualities that we do want in our dream world. There are fantasies of everyone that led us to search for a person as per our choice.
But do we think that all the people in this world are the lucky ones able to find someone as they choose to be? Most probably no, very few people in this world are content with their married life. The other ones have to have adjusted to the situations. The importance of marriage is told to be a very significant part of human life that decides our destination, our inner peace, and perfection. Being in a relationship, we come to realize the responsibilities and discipline of life.
However, there are also some people in this world who deny the need for marriage to be essential in their life. They feel happier to be alone in this world. And are capable of finding themselves in perfection without being in relationships. Do we really think that marriage makes us stronger and more efficient? Or it depletes our potential of individual capabilities. The union of marriage tells us to be within the boundaries of society, where your freedom comes into question, and you have to live and worry about others.
On the other hand, in the other part of Indian society, marriage is taken as a concern of financial and social settlement, which provides security to human life. Being in an alliance, the person bears liabilities of family members that teach them to be in discipline and order. Most probably for the women in Indian society the marriage is a big concern because living alone for women in a country like India is perceived as being threatened for her, which makes Indian women more insecure to stay anywhere.
The question is whether marriage is essential or whether it is an obligation for future prospects. The first thing that comes with marriage is having progeny who can take care of their parents in old age. The other one is to get an heir for the assets they belong to. The third one is having a family who can remain together in every up and down in life. The fourth one is financial dependence. The conditions apply to be in a successful marriage, which makes the person stable in the social parameters.
The spiritual side of the marriage is that it’s a union of two souls, which is called to be soul mates who are compatible with each other in all aspects and feel a need for each other equally. If the life purpose and life goal of two people match equally, their destiny surely approves their life together. And it is a true fact that people feel much more secure, determined, and confident being with their life partners.
But on the contrary, if they are not in healthy relationships, they feel a lack of control, dissatisfaction, insecurity, and setbacks in their life. If they are in a broken relationship like divorce, they go through heartbroken pain and anguish in their life. Resulting, they feel a lack of trust in everyone and lose hope in life, which makes them either more vulnerable or stronger in their decisions depending on their mental strength. The pain of broken relationships definitely destroys people’s inner well-being.
A few influential people presented the example of their individual strength being flourishing without in relationships like our prime ministers Narendra Modi, Former President Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam, Former PM Atal Bihari Vajpayee, Business tycoon Ratan Tata, etc. The people who live in an unhappy relationship in compromising conditions can have a lesson from these examples. Whether they can grow individually or need some support to be developed.
Most people in India from rural areas believe marriages as a necessary custom of religion and make their children tied a wedding knot in a very shortage, which further becomes a reason for unwanted responsibilities, diminishing their development and trouble of increasing population. Making aware these people about the disadvantages of marriage can be beneficial for the overall nation. Or providing some perks to unmarried people from the government side can help.
The conclusion is that marriage is not about just a social norm, rather it’s a personal matter of an individual, how they presume to be in a relationship. How many responsibilities and liabilities they can bear for the future. And with what terms and conditions they want to live their life. Whether marital bliss is the destination of their life or something else, they were born to fulfill the purpose. The matter is about self-introspection, not the social agenda. So the marriage is neither need nor obligation, it’s a personal choice to set a life purpose.