Showing posts with label Psychological. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Psychological. Show all posts

Sunday, October 01, 2023

Man is a seeker of peace

In Search of Peace

We start our journey of life, since we were born and take our place on the earth without knowing the reason and path to follow in this world. As we grow with the time coming out of ignorance we start to learn from our surroundings the fundamentals of life speaking, talking, walking, playing socializing etc. depending on our situations and family. But with the time as we step into the next level of life we come to understand many factors of life and our fight for getting stood up ahead everywhere makes us a racer of life. 


As we become a part of the rat race of the world. We juggle up into two worlds one is the outside physical world and the other one is inside our own mental world. The needs of the physical world teach us to run like a winner to get everything that we aspire, showing us dreams of castles but what about the inner world that always makes us think about soothing our emotional world that we cherish inside us in our hearts in the forms of desires.


Being a part of the material world we use to store assets with us what we require or what we aspire. Physical achievements surely makes us proud of ourselves to become a gainer of things that we think to compete with others in our mind. But some around us still feel that empty ness and restlessness in our hearts and try to find out the reason behind that or not being able to recognize our true self who we are, what we are, what we actually need, what we are pursuing and for what we are  losing our sleep.


The lessons of life till the mid age like heart breaks, deceits, broken relationships or bitterness in people, struggling for their own space, worries of survival or future security. make us down to think over the questions of our presence in this world. And I am sure to say that everybody in this world in their senses surely burns up with the thoughts of questioning themselves about their arrival in this world at least once in their lifetime.


This is the conflict of our life between the material world and spiritual world. Our life goes two ways because we have a rational mind and we come to realize the value of the things after using them and analysing their true means on the basis of profit and loss. The one side our life is equipped with the amenities and luxuries of the outer attractions what we want to gain in order to prove ourselves successful in eyes of others, and other side we become frustrated and tired with the tedious and manipulative tasks of always winning situations. Because we never like to be defeated by others. The question of self respect and ego hurts us . But even after fighting through the whole life we come to the same point where we began and reckoned our achievements. The finding tells us only by passing through the sequence of events of life step by step to complete the life cycle.


History says that many victorious people have gone mad after their success and many become mad due to failures. The man becomes both ways crazy.. After all what we want in life we never acknowledge in the fast race of life. The answer lies in our daily fulfillment. After getting all the tasks done we all go to sleep to take a sigh of relief to take leave from the all day hustle bustle. Because we seek peace and comfort. Whatever we do for our life we wind up at the end of the day. And come to peace by seeking the stay away from everything.


This is the final answer of all our queries to the life that we all are actually seekers of peace. No matter what kind of life stories we come across. But we all want peace in our mind, body and soul. The peace which can rejuvenate us, please us and teach us the lessons of life to be cool, calm and never give up in any situation. And stay strong to come out of all the hurdles in our path and solve the puzzles of mind.This is the essence of the human journey for life. Here we get a chance to churn and learn best out of life to be satisfying our nerves and being content to all the givings of life.


Monday, November 08, 2021

Home, Heart and Mind

A Need for a Home: For Everyone
“Home is where our heart is”, a well-known phrase, Definitely the home is everyone’s basic need. All things start at home and end in home life. All the species make their home on this earth in various manners, that is the place that provides them safety, security, and peace of their heart to find stability. There are tiny creatures like ants, mice, and insects on the earth bird's nests, beehives on the trees, or lion caves that remind us about the importance of home for every living being. As we say the food, cloth, and inhabitation (Roti, Kapada Aur Makan) are the basic needs of human beings.

All the creatures at Home
Likewise, humans are always crazy about making their homes as much as distinctive and beautiful as their choice. Because home reflects their heart and mind. They decorate the home and settle the home in their own way of living and comfort. The home gives us peace and comfort after coming across all the hustle-bustle of life we all seek the comfort of our home, in the end, to relax and feel a sense of safety. Because our home gives us a boundary to dissect from the world and be centralized in our own specific terms.

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Home is everybody’s part of life's dream. People spend to make their home as much as they can afford as per their income sources. They spend the greatest part of their income in making their homes. Even home is such a severe need for everyone that makes the people borrow money in the form of a loan for making their homes.

In every part of the world, there are different trends about home. Big, large, or tiny as per need or choice. The rich people have homes with full luxuries and amenities, and poor people have homes with places to stay and relax. But the love for their home is the same in everybody’s heart and mind. Home is not only associated with our basic needs, but it's an aspiration and will to make our life as per our dreams.

Our home affects our heart, mind, and soul in every moment. As our lifestyle is connected with our home adjustments. Every corner of our home affects us in some direct or indirect way. If we talk about the science of homes, the Vastu Shastra tells about the terminology of construction of homes. The home has three major construction measures where civil engineer, architecture, and Vastu Shastra take their place. Our home is a reflection of our persona, and home can say much about our life stories.

Our home affects our mental health and psychological traits also like if our home is much organized and systematic it helps us to be cool and energetic, but if the home is scattered and erratic it makes us juggle with the daily routine and make us irritating and agitated. Likewise, if the home is systematic and hygienic it makes us relax and calm, but if the home is dirty and dingy it makes us sick and lethargic, which affects our productive strength.

If we talk about riches to rags, then also poor people have their homes on the corners of the streets, but they have their creativity also show in. We can find their small raw huts very comfortable and beautiful sometimes, which draws our attention. They can be made by any raw material like haywire, bamboos, soil, bricks or wood, etc. But it also shows the importance of home for human life.

Many people are bound to live in the rented house, where they don’t have their ownership, but at that stage, these people really miss the dream of their own home and surely go to the pain of living in the other's house as a guest As per the recent scenario due to increasing population every day our homes are getting shorter than before. And people now have a new trend of living in apartments where the convenience of getting your own home has become easier, but somehow the wish to get their own big house on the earth is still in their heart.

There is planning to live on Mars in the future, but the question is, Will we be able to create our homes like earth on another planet if this endeavor becomes successful. The victory of a man definitely will be praised by the almighty. The conclusion is everybody who is born on this earth like a living creature needs a home. Home is directly connected with our heart, mind, and soul and plays a role in a more authentic relationship with ourselves rather than any other else.

Sunday, April 26, 2020

Life is not a Fair Deal.

Life is about questions and confusions
A Fight for Life

Life is a beautiful word and it creates wonders. It fills the heart with warmth and aspirations. Whenever we talk about life it reflects our endeavors to prove ourself in this world with our all abilities and potential. It gives us optimism to reach our goals by overcoming all the hurdles and hassles. It shows the positivity of attitude and liveliness in our nature and behavior.

But it is contained with many questions mark what, why, where, when, how and so on. It amazed us on every single step ahead. As we grow and come to our senses, we start exploring the world with our own wisdom. We learn from every single moment to our surroundings by Observing the people, situations and conditions around us. The question of survival and existence arises to compete with others in the rat race of life. We make plans to climb the ladder of life without knowing whether we will succeed or fail. Success makes us stronger and confident to flow with the current of life. But Failures teach us lessons to fight with adversities.

But the truth is that it is not easy to tackle life situations. Sometimes our decisions take us to a wrong way and make us feel pity for our actions. Sometimes shame, guilt, embarrassment, remorse, and regret becomes a part of life. Every moment of life forces us to be diplomatic and shrewd to our own means. Everyday we come across different people, who are not up to our level of understanding. Our views, thoughts and opinions clash with them creates a snag in our pursuits of ambitions. We do wrong things, knowing that these are out of ethics and morals.We degrade, exploit and humiliate others, even make fun of others, without knowing what the other will be feeling about us. Even sometimes our bad comments hurt the people in such a way that curses us for life.

We never try to feel the pain of others, we never count numbers of our wrong deeds, and we tease others on the basis of natural happenings with them. And after all we feel good about, whatever we do in our own knowledge. We do all this for our own selfishness, fulfill our greeds and win the situations of life, where we know that others are more eligible for us.we are not worth them.

We never think to evaluate and reckon the number of evils and sin we adopted to get what we want in life. Our passions and ambitions lead us to the paramount of our dreams. But what is the cost of these we need to pay? We never like to know the truth. But we still call “life is beautiful”, and we love life. 

Our great scholars had told us that every action gets a reaction and “we will reap, what we sow” No matter how much we try to escape, the fruits of our karmas surely haunt us. The vessels of sin will burst, when they get filled. But still we all are compelled to do what we don’t want.

Because the question of survival and competing the world is the most inevitable. We have to fight in order to gain what we want. And our needs never let us to sit calmly. We want the things of our choice by any hook or crook. Even if we like to avoid the sins or evil, we can not be avoided because they are also needed for self-defense. The bad people who come across us can not be handled without crookedness. We do have to have become harsh and ruthless to defeat them.

Because evil people surely exploit you taking advantage of your genuinity, sensitivity and kindness. They do every maneuver to ward off you, from their routes to come before you by cheating you deliberately. We can not ignore their astute tactics. We have to be evil to deal with evil people.We cannot be fair with everyone.

By the way, we all have some dark elements inside us to sustain with life circumstances. But we should recognize the devil inside everyone. How much it can be harmful to you snatching your joy and calm of life. People are ready to swindle you on every step. So be ready to tackle the people by saving your honesty to yourself with determining the actions of your soul. After all, life is not a fair deal .