Fantasies Vs Realities

Fantasies Vs Realities
Truths and Lies

My blogs are about the realities of the world. The truth behind the bars comes out like water, and the mirror never tells a lie.

 

People live their entire lives in search of comforts, luxuries, and pleasures. But life is simply driven by the truth of struggles, pains, hassles, ups and downs, grievances, sorrows as well. Nobody can escape the sufferings of nature in a lifetime. Since childhood, we have been hooked up with our needs and greed for materialistic things. Whatever pleasurable we look around us, we wish to get it so fast, But the reality is completely different. It matters whether you are able to fulfill your wishes or not. If your wishes easily get fulfilled you feel happy but if they haven’t you feel disappointed and dismay. And our mind never got ready to admit these failures resulting in us feeling depressed and low spirited. The pain of losing something pinch into our hearts like needles. And that is the face of life we drown in sadness.

The pain comes into our lives in order to realize the importance of self-awakening over materialistic substances. What if everything we wish to get at the time without any efforts and hard work. There will be no concern about the usability of the things for us. And craze, curiosity, and interests of the things will get diminished. But if we get something by putting lots of hard work and time-consuming. Then we got into the heart of the matter that nothing is easy and every bit of the world is so expensive. We have to pay the price for the happiness and fulfillment of our desires.

For example, you become paranoid to get someone in your life because you love it. And you can easily get them in your life in a single attempt. Then most of the chances after getting them, you feel the boredom of the person and try to find out happiness in someone else. So unless you don’t get the person you loved, it was the fantasy for you but as soon as you get the person easily you face the reality of the love. And most probably fall into the danger of a broken heart.

We need to acknowledge that nothing in this world is completely a hundred percent perfect and pleasurable. If there is something positive than negative is also inevitable. The universe is a combination of both kinds of energy. If there are deities then demons also exist. If there are flowers, then thorns also exist. We have to recognize the properties hidden in the source of nature by which we are made. If the joys are part of life, then sorrows are also a part of them.

However, sometimes we feel like things are not falling at the right place even after our all well doings. And nature is unjustified with us. But the truth behind is how far can we see. Our vision is so short as compared to how the universe works in their order. Because it reflects the effects in long durations of time even centuries. That’s why we believe in the theory of karma and reincarnation. Whatever happens in the present can be the effect of the past. And can be the cause for tomorrow.

Fantasies fetch us, towards which is transitory and superficial. But the universe serves us what we deserve it. That’s why many times we feel distracted from our own path that we have chosen for us. Fantasies of the world attract us, lure us towards whatever is an illusion or ephemera, but realities make our rendezvous with the solid truths. If the fantasies teach us to fly in the dreamy sky, then reality teaches us to be keeping our feet on the earth. Sometimes we become cinematic and begin to weave the dreams of wonderland which are unable to reach us and become the cause of sorrow by yourself. So it's better for us to accept the realities as pure as water rather than diving into the fantasies of the world which are quite far from our reach. So that it will surely create contentment inside us. And will help us to find the true meaning of life.